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I am 32 years old.

born in California 1983.

born to immigrant parents. Arab. Muslim. escaping war.

32 years as an American.

32 years of that honor and distinction.

of dancing around the world with the most valuable passport in human history.

32 years of watching this experiment fail and collapse into itself.

I remember the Berlin Wall. watching it fall on television. Peter Jennings reporting.

I remember joy wrapping the world so tight no one could breathe.

we won. love won. unity won. openness won. democracy won.

the narrative was convenient.

America spent its century both freeing and dominating the world.

freeing. torturing. humiliating its own.

what was the civil rights movement if not a fight for basic dignity?

what was Vietnam if not abuse?

and America survived both with minimal adaptation.

an empire of systems. always acting to preserve those systems.

whether breeding right-wing assassins to destroy civil rights leaders or to pretend that you, as a citizen, are heard.

the collapse of the Berlin Wall, of the USSR, became propaganda to keep this network functioning.

we won. we’re still here. we run the world.

and three years later Rodney King is beaten mercilessly by police. it’s recorded. the police are tried and found Not Guilty.

and LA burns. and I am too young to understand why. to understand what it means.

and nothing changes. the systems function through it all as they always do.

America’s platinum respirator.

over 20 years since then.

people that look like me, talk like me, have parents like mine are ripped apart halfway across the world by America’s nihilistic shadow.

over 20 years since and Americans darker than me are exterminated en masse by a system that has become too efficient at maintaining the status quo.

that’s probably its only fault: it works too well.

when the extremist right disproportionately controls America’s governments…

when the choice of President comes down to a hawkish neoliberal willing to endorse the extermination of Arabs on behalf of Israel and a megalomaniacal tyrant that cannot discuss anything beyond a second-grade reading level…

when black Americans can be gunned down, broken, stomped on, have it all recorded, broadcast, and have nothing change…

that is America’s empire of systems working too well.

and that’s the sick genius of it.

this kind of oppression has no symbol. no joints.

no center.

it is a titanic sea of ghost limbs heaving in the dark.

you might be able to see it with the right kind of eyes, but it’s not like before.

it’s careful. quiet. thick. flaccid.

it’s not black students blasted with a fire hose in small-town America.

it’s not Kent State.

it’s not police tanks.

it’s rhetoric.

it’s Fox News, casual racism, microaggressions, the necessity to listen to what the Nazis have to say in pursuit of some theoretical objectivity.

America can handle a riot or 10.

it’s done it before when it was much less sophisticated.

and I don’t know what the solution is.

I don’t know what I can even say that other, better, people haven’t already and I don’t need to add commentary to the overwhelming body of recorded, state-sanctioned violence.

I can only say that America is the most complex mask ever invented.

the face you see depends on who you are, where you’re from, who you know, how you look, how you got here.

and in 2016 all I can be sure of is the glistening furnace staring down the end of us, sweating with anticipation like so many cops stuck in their fearful fever dreams of violent heroism.

welcome to the land of Don Quixote.

happy shooting.







This is not about video games.

This is about the inhuman horror of a world on top of a world.

This is about our own genial depravity in the era of cold love.

This is about the pain that we consistently devalue. Our own and others’.

I have lived through both sides of this: A refugee and a war zone.

2006 and abandoned in Syria while Lebanon is demolished.

Two decades earlier and stuck in an occupied Lebanon with its nightly skirmishes in some not-so-distant valleys.

While born in California, Lebanon is the ghost of my origin. Always hovering in the shadows of my bones.

2006. I am stuck. I wander downtown Damascus. For once, I don’t mind its filth. I feel polluted anyway.

I stumble beneath giant banners of Hafez Al-Assad. I linger beneath the lights of the old markets.

Everyone reminding me how ancient it all is while I get text messages from my girlfriend  in Europe about how much of an asshole I am.

I don’t care.

Terror has always hung around the sharp, intimate edges of my living.

My parents’ constant arguments.

Gunfire keeping me up at night.

The mindless, distant droning of aircraft.

I’ve never found a piece of media that properly conveyed the feeling of terror.

They all fail because they try to push a narrative. The story softens the blow.

No, the most horrifying aspect of terror is the meaningless indifference of it.

A plane engine and you are incinerated in your sleep.

A discarded toy and your body is ripped apart.

Packing a suitcase and an artillery shell demolishes your home.

(Two of these nearly happened to me).

No sense to it. No story. You exist until you don’t.

At some point, there is a decision you have to make: leave or stay?

And staying is always easier. Even when faced with the deliberate, hard fear of being obliterated, staying is still easier.

Every time I was forced to abandon Lebanon, a piece of me broke.

Stuck in Syria in 2006, I am nothing but pieces.

Today’s refugees are nothing but pieces. Tired, broken, bent, haunted.

Terror driving them from their homes only to meet that same terror hundreds and thousands of miles away driving fear and violence into their welcoming.

9/11. 7/7. 11/13.

No one has learned anything. People only have compassion when it suits them. When they are comfortable. When they are unconcerned and need a cause to flesh out their identity as Good People.

Inconvenient compassion has no place in today’s rhetoric or action.

The media, the world only cared about Beirut’s ISIS bombings through the lens of Paris. Without the pain of France, the pain of Lebanon was insubstantial.

Without the pain of France, the refugees might’ve had a better chance.

Now, mosques are burned down, immigrants are attacked, and 30 states (so far) in the U.S. have stated they do not wish to assist in resettling refugees.

Our species has become a parody of decency and compassion.

This is a world of rhetorical games being played by billionaires to sway an assumed idiot public to hate as much as they possibly can.

To hate with crazed, religious zeal.

It is tempting. It feels decent and right in the moment, but the cost is too high to be sustainable.

I have lived every side of conflict. I carry with me the Hell of resignation.

Of being resigned to a devalued life. That numbness is unforgettable.

ISIS devalues life. ISIS is an amoral, vindictive force.


May the world not become its mirror.